This is the million dollar question that’s been asked since the dawn of cellular integration, and here’s your very own cheat sheet.
I’m going to start this off by telling you my story real quick. I met this amazing girl in my business class that was a solid 9 out of 10 and she was just mind-blowing. I finally managed to talk to her after class one day where everything was going right and instead of going to her next class, she even sat down with me and continued talking.
I couldn’t believe my luck but I couldn’t wrap up the conversation and I just kept getting cold feet because I was too afraid to ask for her number and I didn’t know how to word it properly. Eventually she had to leave and I was left kicking myself for the rest of the day. I let a solid 9 out of 10 girl walk away from me when I had it right in my hand! What did I do wrong? Why was it so hard to ask her?
That was bothering me so much that I kept thinking about it until I figured out my mistakes and the solution dawned on me like the beginning of Transformers: Age of Extinction. Here’s what I did differently and here are the steps that you too should follow if you want solid results.
Step 1: Treat every girl the same to gain confidence
If you talk to most girls but are only playful with the really hot ones, you have serious inconsistency. You have to act the same way around every girl so that you are completely comfortable in your own skin. If you do that, then when Miss 10 out of 10 comes along, you won’t skip a heartbeat. So treat every girl the same.
Step 2: Make your conversations fun and short
This is a big thing that I did wrong. I kept on talking to this girl when I should have made it short and sweet. That way, I would have remained a playful mystery in her mind, which is exactly what girls go after the most.
Here’s an example of when I started doing things right. I was walking towards my car in the parking lot behind this girl and I casually said with some sarcasm, “Don’t you just love this gloomy weather?” She smiled and replied “You actually like this?” I said “No, I hate it” and she just laughed.
It doesn’t have to be anything too crazy or flirty, just as long as you make the girl laugh. After that, you can ask her for anything.
Step 3: Ask for her number using this basic script
To continue on with the story, this girl and I walked over to her car and she said “Well I have to get going.” To which I replied “So do I, but let me get your number before I go. You seem pretty interesting” and I handed her my phone. All she did was just smile and add herself. Girls are ten times more likely to give you their number if you hand them your phone (plus making them laugh helps make that easy).
Use this script after you make her laugh. “Anyway, I have to get going but you seem pretty interesting. Would you mind giving me your number?” Simple, not too needy and straight to the point.
Step 4: Get her number (or don’t) and leave
If she says ‘no’ then play it off with something like “Aw common, am I really that scary?” You’ll either make her laugh and she’ll say ‘yes’ or she’ll say ‘no’ but it doesn’t matter because you made her laugh so you’re a winner.
Whatever you get, you have to be on your way because you’ve got important stuff going on and she’s not the center of the universe. That’s it.
Step 5: Repeat Step 1-4 with every girl you meet
You want this to become second nature to you so repeat this with every girl regardless of how hot she is. If you can do that, then you will become a true alpha.
So these are the five steps to getting a girl’s number. Do you agree or disagree with this? Do you have your own methods or success stories that you’d like to share? Leave a comment and we’ll respond.